Andi Forness is the cofounder of a recreational roller-derby league, a Jungian spiritual psychology life coach and an online-dating expert. After her breakup three years ago, she kept finding herself in the same place with men. As a bilingual dyslexia specialist, Forness has always had a fascination with repatterining the mind, and she knew in order to get out of her dating rut, she would have to…Read More
Online dating can be so annoying and difficult and hard, but it's also a great way to do some personal development. After all, it's about a million times easier to find your person after you improve your relationship skills—so if you let them, the tools you learn through online dating can make you happier in all your relationships.Read More
When I started dating again at 41, I found myself overanalyzing everything, going through the motions of swiping right and left, getting super annoyed with creepy guys, responding to less-than-stellar profiles, and spending my precious single-mom free time at boring coffee and happy hour dates. Trust me, I was not living the Hollywood love story.
Reflecting on the situation now, I realize exactly what the problem was: It had nothing to do with the appsRead More
Do guys get all into you and end up disappearing and you can’t figure it out? One of the things that was happening to me that I found out after the fact, is that they guys I was involved in, didn’t know I was interested in them.Read More
Do you feel all cringy when they guy you are getting to know out of the blue starts texting something sexual?
Are you where you want to be in regards to your love life? Consider this, the reason you did not have a great relationship will be the reason you do not have another great relationship UNTIL you know what you need to work on AND practice until you have some muscle memory.
Do you follow Matthew Hussey? I do! I think he is great, and I don’t always agree with his advice.
“People get burnt out in dating when they give away their time too easily. Save your energy for the people that
Is your new love story taking WAY longer than it should?
If so, perhaps you are giving your time to people now worthy of it. Not because they are bad guys, rather they are just not available.
Read my letter to a guy I REALLY liked and decided he wasn’t for me:
I am dating a guy and he is nice and sweet. I thought it was Mr. Right and but here is my problem. He is a really really jealous man, and one day he asked me how many men I have had sex with before him. I give him a number and he didn’t say anything.
Next time I tried to make love with him he couldn’t ….
Do you find that you are attracted to guys that NEVER WORK OUT even if you have TONS OF CHEMISTRY with them from the get go?
It could be because you are attracted to THE UNAVAILABLE ONE.
Yes him.Read More
There is a guy at work that has a girlfriend that I am attracted to, and I am wondering we can be friends. Sometimes, it is distracting to hang out with him and the attraction is mutual ( we talked about it ) which makes it more
If a man does not ask, then he is usually not that interested, right? I do not want to seem pushy andRead More
Do you feel like dating isn’t getting you anywhere closer to your ideal man no matter how hard you try? That was my story too! I read lots of books on the topic, followed dating coaches like Matthew Hussey and…
When I started my ONLINE DATING JOURNEY, I quickly realized that I had some UNHEALTHY DATING/RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS that were …Read More
13 years ago I met this guy in NYC, we were together 9 months and it was the happiest relationship I have had after my divorce. He broke up with me because...Read More
Online dating used to FREAK ME OUT, I was really SCARED because I had not dated since I was 20 years old. I wasn’t good a flirting ….Read More
Do you want to attract a quality guy ready for a relationship online?
There are a lot of Mr Wrongs out there, especially in the online dating world and it can be ya know.. a bummer whenRead More