Top Reason Why A Guy Disappears...
Do guys get all into you and …
then end up disappearing
and you can’t figure it out? 🤦🏻♀️
This exact scenario was happening to me and I knew if I was going to ever have that amazing boyfriend in my life that I was going to need to problem solve this stat.
You see I used to really like men's attention ( Dad issues) and came off really strong and needy
which got me bad results.
So UNCONSCIOUSLY I had to go a total 180 and put on my cool girl/I don’t need your face.
The COOL GIRL PERSONA was not giving off any vibes. ZERO ZILCH NADA.
I needed to have shown some interest and given them a sign instead of acting all aloof and distant.
I need to learn how to be vulnerable without being needy.
That dynamic kept me in an endless circle of self-doubt and self-sabotage and single a lot longer than it should have.
Each time a guy would disappear, I would make up a story that there was something wrong with me. I was too fat, too skinny, too smart, not smart enough, too tall, too short, too too too too….
Guys disappear if they think you are not into them
If you think this is COULD BE what is going on with you then,
throw the guy a bone and don’t be afraid to be direct if you want to go out with him or go out again.
Just make sure you don’t do it by reaching out to him first.