Secrets to Avoid the Unavailable Guy
Are you where you want to be in regards to your love life?
7 years after my divorce, I was really in a bad place emotionally because I was STILL dating the unavailable guy.
I didn’t go through all the sadness and pain of getting a divorce and to end up single and/or shitty relationships for the rest of my life.
I realized that I needed to have a clear, soulful vision of what I wanted and not a checklist of likes and dislikes.
I needed to try to meet new people, explore new connections, and connect with men based on feeling and not thinking.
To do this effectively, I looked beyond a potential match's height, number of hair follicles, and love for kayaking when picking who to date. ( Short guys are actually so much fun! )
Physical attraction and some similar interests might be important, but I had to have a clear vision of who I wanted to meet that's based on deeper qualities—things like kindness, compassion, generosity, and loyalty.
Turns out someone who is really KIND is actually really HOT.
Same with intelligence.
Same with consistency
When I was are clear on how I wanted to feel with a partner, I was be able to see it.