! Matthew Hussey And Me: Do You Agree When Matt Says This?
Hey lady o,
Do you follow Matthew Hussey? I do! I think he is great, and I don’t always agree with his advice.
“People get burnt out in dating when they give away their time too easily. Save your energy for the people that give you butterflies.” - Matthew Hussey
I agree and disagree with him on this. It depends on what kind of “butterflies”.
I have had PLENTY of butterflies with red flags, liars, alcoholics, bullshitters, and man babies.
I used to have tons of butterflies with the unavailable guys.
Instant butterflies are a huge red flag for me, and I mistook them for love.
The butterflies I hope Matt is talking about are the ones I look for now. The guy that consistently shows up. The guy that is eager to get to know the real me. The guy that will put in time and effort for a real relationship.
The butterflies that start with a curiosity and evolves into a slow burn then a constant flame coming from down deep in my soul.
And if you have NOT had an amazing relationship up to now, my guess is that you have not been showing up as your true self as YOUR OWN HEARTS DESIRE, and I honestly can not find a BETTER place to practice becoming that person than with ONLINE DATING.
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To Learn how to use online dating as a personal development program.
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- Real, proven strategies for being themselves and NOT PLAYING GAMES and still finding their Mr. Right
- Real, proven strategies for practicing the RELATIONSHIP SKILLS that may have caused past relationships to flop so you can be open to meeting your Mr. Right ANYWHERE (and not just online)