How I was setting myself for HEARTACHE and how I stopped

When I first started dating again after my divorce, I thought it would be sooo easy to find a cool, fun, smart guy that I was super attracted to be my boyfriend.

I was popular and had a ton of male and female friends. 

I spent time taking care of myself so I was attractive.

I was an extrovert and it was not difficult for me to strike up a convo with anyone.

I had no problem attracting guys.

My problem was picking the wrong ones.

It took me YEARS to stop picking the Unavailable Ones.

and Chica,

let me tell you there are a lot of ways that a guy can show up Unavailable.

One of the main ways is Unavailable doesn't have time.

He isn't a bad guy. He just doesn't have time.

Maybe he travels a lot for work.

Maybe he has young kids under 13.

Maybe he is starting his own business.

There was a guy I was dating before Kurt and we were getting along really well but it became clear to me this guy only had 2 hours a week for a relationship.

I knew that I needed more than that in order to get to know someone and have the type of relationship I really wanted.

I was ready to see someone at the minimum of 3 times a week, even at the beginning! 

So I paid attention, I honored my desires and had a convo with him. 

He admitted not being at the level I was wanting and we decided to just be friends.

My WIN in that is that I did not let the relationship keep going more than a few weeks AND I didn't make him wrong or bad or bring up the old story that " no one has time for me" ... I am so over that story.

I just Blessed and Released! (I learned this in sales training.. when the client is not a good fit ) 

Honor your desires and make sure your guy has the same ones. It will save you some heartache and help you heal from old stories/patterns.

Grab your guide and stop wasting your time and hurting your heart!

10 Clear Signs That He Is Unavailable! 

Hey Chica.!  My mission is to help every single woman that wants a great and HOT guy 🕺🏻 to share their life with to have one. No matter how old they are, how long they have been single, how messed up their parents were, how saggy ⬇️ their boobs are, nor how much they have been hurt 😢.  I can show them the steps 🧗🏼‍♀️to take, hold their hand, cheer 💥them on and drink a glass of champagne 🍾 at their weddings!

Hey Chica.!

My mission is to help every single woman that wants a great and HOT guy 🕺🏻 to share their life with to have one. No matter how old they are, how long they have been single, how messed up their parents were, how saggy ⬇️ their boobs are, nor how much they have been hurt 😢.

I can show them the steps 🧗🏼‍♀️to take, hold their hand, cheer 💥them on and drink a glass of champagne 🍾 at their weddings!

Grab your guide

and save yourself some heartache…

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