This is Sarah she met her guy online within four men that she was checking out. I love this girl… has such a bubbly fun spirit with an inner badass running through it.
But for 3 years she was frustrated with online dating (never-ending messaging, ghosting, blah dates); not finding men who were a suitable match; short-term relationships never progressing to long-term committed relationships.
She is now in a committed and loving relationship with a wonderful man. It's the most open and adult relationship she has ever been in.
When we started working together, we realized quickly that she was working blind in the online dating world.
Sarah was swiping away without intention or focus on what she was truly looking for.
After a few sessions together, Sarah became very clear on what she was looking for in a partner and she then learned specific skills to find it. Her online dating process became systematic, confident and FUN!
Sarah figured out what she was looking for and made a tangible "list" so that she could date with intention and focus on what she really wanted to find. Together we reverse engineered her profile to better attract the kind of man she wanted.
And BOOM...her boyfriend is the 4th guy she went on a date with after we starting working together.
Estrella’s guy was the first one she met after we started working together. It doesn’t have to take years, chicas!
Estrella had been doing online dating for more than 14 years and was attracting emotionally unavailable guys. She picked them for their looks, charisma, and charm, but when she wanted to build a relationship they would for the hills or were incapable to commit.
Before we even signed up to work together, we agreed that she needed to pick a different kind of guy if she wanted to build the long-term committed relationship she wanted. Estrella wants to get married again.
And that wasn’t as easy as it sounds. Estrella’s old habits and patterns that kept her single for years kept popping up in even in this relationship. However, this time, Estrella had yours truly 🙋🏽♀️ to give her timely and an unfiltered perspective so she wouldn’t make the same love sabotaging mistakes that she did in her past.
Everything had developed slowly, but just last week he bought her a night table and put it on her side of the bed with her personal stuff at his house and planning their first out of town trip together. Wohoooo! That is super sweet!
Estrella can be found coaching women to tap into their FEMININE Leadership talents at www.estrellamaria.com
It had been 19 years since my last first date and I was terrified of making wrong choices when it came to “looking for love” again.
My main concerns were that even though I had done “the work”- Getting rid of bad habits: not being myself, putting guys first and body image issues, the idea of online dating was completely overwhelming. So much so that I had put off signing up for anything for 6 months. I wanted help from someone that understood how the online dating scene worked and could help me look at dating again at 49 in a better light.
Andi has helped me restart my love life! She assisted in selecting the right dating site for me and making sure I had a great profile. One of the first things Andi said to me was “These photos do not capture exactly who you are” and helped me plan & choose better ones. The game changer for me was figuring out what I WANTED instead of being focused on what I didn’t want. Andi helped me focus on the positive which made the prospect of dating not so daunting.
I am a Mom and a business owner and used to doing everything myself. Having a professional like Andi has made all the difference. It was comforting to know that Andi’s support was there when I didn’t know what to do!
PS I am still dating the first guy I met! We are having so much fun and I adore him. 😉
"Andi is a loving and no-nonsense coach. She'll help you cut through the confusion of finding love with her smart and highly effective dating strategies."
I've met an amazing 51 year old after working with Andi and the scary thing is I would have passed him up. I actually did for 5 months but I learned how my mindset needed to shift for me to let a great guy in.
Before working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling in Love group program, I was struggling with creating an online profile that attracted available men that I connected with mentally and physically.
Her advice on creating a profile that is personable and attracting is spot on. She had me step outside my comfort zone in dating type.
She helped me learn to relax and enjoy the moment when dating. I stopped interviewing and I allowed myself to date men that weren't my "type".
Andi is a great coach and mentor. She is real and holds you accountable to be real with yourself. She shares her own personal experiences and gives advice that can be applied immediately. She is experienced and supportive.
Before working with Andi in the S2F❤️ group program, I was in limbo and had been online dating for two years.
I was attracted to guys that were not ready for the kind of relationship that I was desired deep in my heart. Before working with Andi, I would find myself on a lot of first and second dates. Or I with guys that would ghost, linger off or say it was not working. Repeated dating situations like this hurt my feelings a lot and left me anxious and closed off.
After working with Andi, I was able to pick a guy that I would have normally passed over. I am so glad I didn’t.
I am in an exclusive relationship with an amazing man who bought me flowers for Mother’s Day, fancy movie tickets, Disneyland day passes because he knows I love all those things. He is a giver and which is exactly what I wanted. Andi’s encouragement and guidance to be more open that I thought I was was really what helped me find him and keep him. We have had some bumps along the way and Andi has really helped me talk to him in a postive and empowering way and he keeps stepping up.
Heather came to work with me after her divorce.
Single and with 3 kids she did not know she was going to find love online.
We quickly realized that Heather needed to RETRAIN herself about what a relationship actually needed to feel like for her to be happy and fulfilled.
She is now married and IN LOVE for the first time feeling cared for on a DEEP SOUL LEVEL and having the time of her life exploring all parts of herself with her husband!
"I reconnected with a guy who triggered me,knowing Andi would be there to talk to and help me decipher the reactions to the big emotions. I uncovered a BIG pattern from my childhood and now understand how it impacted my relationships and now I am having messages from better quality matches."
is dating a few awesome guys and feeling really good!
She was getting burned out trying to play the numbers game of going out with a ton of guys regardless of her level of interest/attraction to them, just in case they ended up being the one.
After working together in a session or two, she felt a lot more clear about what she specifically wanted in the dating process and then became more confident and then even more trusting of herself that she could make good decisions in regards to men
She began to see dating as a personal development opportunity instead of something uncomfortable to dread or “ have to do” to find love.
Before coaching with Andi I was fearful of making the wrong decision. I was so fearful that I have not been in a relationship in 3 years.
On week 2 of working with Andi, I have 12 wonderful men responding to me and I am in a super small town in the middle of nowhere!
! am now attracting good men and trusting myself when they are anything less or I'm just not interested. I pay attention to how I feel now vs over analyzing.
I was able to practice trust with Andi and be so completely honest and open that even my biggest fears could come out and be dealt with.
Andi rocks. She's so sweet and trustworthy and yet so wise and clear. She will tell you what you need and not what you want to hear so be ready to do real work.
Andi is like a light into your mind and the shadows that have hidden your best life. Her light is the love of her heart and she will lead you back to your own light.
Melinda was online dating but just going through the motions, settling with whatever was out there and finding herself really discouraged and frustrated!
After a VIP session together, she went into dating even more clear with her vision, worked on how to state it confidently so he could hear it, and she practiced asking key questions she never asked before which was a huge game changer in how her relationship played out.
Fast forward a few months and now she is dating her DREAM GUY and feeling so hopeful after being divorced for 9 years.
He is the 3rd guy she met online on her third round of online dating. He asked her to be his girlfriend and he meets her where she is emotionally, spiritually and physically.
Melinda has a BIG say now in how the relationship goes that she NEVER had before. BOOM!