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Stalling 2

Falling in ❤️

Successfully use online dating to find your perfect guy…..

Stalling to Falling in Love ( S2F❤️) is will open again Sept 24, 2019!

You got the career. You have friends. You have smarts.

You have looks. You have worked on your issues.

You are ready to be a girlfriend, a wife and maybe a mom 👶🏼

So you have gone on a dating app or two because when you look 👀 around your house, office, yoga studio… there are no great guys to date 🤦🏻‍♀️!

What the hell is going on because the guys that pursue you aren’t your type at all.

The guys you are attracted to leave you feeling needy and cray cray.

Are you wondering now if maybe you are doing something wrong? Why are you still single? Why is online dating so difficult for you?

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First off big hugs and I hear ya.

Online dating can be a annoying and a sucky experience when you keep picking the wrong guys.

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Listen chicas, I know what it is like to have your spirits and confidence crushed with online dating when you…

Are forcing yourself to make do with the ok kinda lame guys who are interested in you or 

Falling cray cray 🤪for every guy that sends mixed signals, leaves you hanging and isn’t really available 🤦🏻‍♀️

 

Flashback to my 46th birthday when I was super sad single on my couch. 😩

I wanted to celebrate my birthday with a loving boyfriend 🕺🏻but instead my mother was taking me to dinner. 👎🏽

Then it hit me what I was messing up.. the only marker I was using to pick men to spend time with was CHEMISTRY.

That marker alone was clearly not taking me down the right path so I could finally find my right guy.

Let alone something that would be sustainable with my partner for a life time. 👵🏼👨🏽‍🦳

 

I needed to create chemisty with the guys wanting a relationship with me 🙋🏽‍♀️

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And it worked! 🍾

My clients and I created relationships by:

  • Creating a vision that was not based on what we thought we wanted rather something deeper that we couldn’t see.

  • We learned how to not discard the good guys and how to create  soulful and lasting attraction with them.

  • My clients and I had to let go of the belief that we would KNOW THE ONE when we met him EVEN IF we were really intuitive about other things.

  • We had to quickly identify the UNAVAILABLE GUYS and not let them distract us and take us off our path.

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I want to share with you a plan that works to finally find your guy online…

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Introducing….

 

Stalling to Falling in ❤️ 5 Steps

 

Step 1 PLAN:

  • Aligning yourself with the perfect app for you based on your personality to successfully navigate the online dating world

  • Creating an on-point vision of your perfect guy with dating checkpoints to keep you focused on the right guy

  • Dud proofing your date to save yourself time and frustration with the Hot Dates Only System ( this involves a flow chart 😬 ) 


Step 2 YOU:

  • Choosing  your online photos to show off  yo fine self so he will be super swiping right

  • Designing a dating profile that stands out from the crowd and sends a crystal clear message to magnetize your man to reach out and set up a great first date

  •  Implementing your dating mindset with the support of Jungian psychology and guided meditations so you can effortlessly keep moving forward toward the love of your life


Step 3 HIM:

  • Discover secrets to swiping on your Mr. Right to guarantee you do not miss out on any good guys and can avoid the unavailable guy

  •  Learn the top 5 ways you are pushing away quality guys so you can start inviting him to step into your amazing life with you

  • Uncover the top ways you are emotionally and physically over giving to your date/guy that burns you out and pushes him away


Step 4 BREAK PATTERNS:

  • Learn to spot the fake charm of the unavailable guy so you don’t get sucked in and set yourself up for unnecessary heartache

  • Effortlessly  make Mr. Good Into Mr. Hot and Sexy even if you did not feel it on the first few dates

  • Know when to throw in the towel and when to stay with a guy to make sure you are not wasting months of your life


Step 5 FEMININE COMMUNICATION:

  • Know exactly what to say on the first message so that he gets excited about you and responds back quickly

  • Move from a never-ending pen pal on Tinder and being asked on a DATE DATE by the guy you are attracted to  

  • Overcome your fear of conflict by using the 3 Part Get Your Needs Met Template to tell your guy what you need in an upbeat, positive and empowering 💪🏽way vs exploding and /or being passive-aggressive. 👎🏽


If you have been online dating longer than 6 months and still not found your man…

I am not going to tell you that you can vision board yourself out of the above nightmare that keeps killing your spirits and making you quit online dating every 3 months… 

This is real deal support.

This is how to use online dating as tool so you can learn to retrain your brain to create chemistry with the relationship ready guys quickly so you can stop wasting time with asshats and stop hurting your heart.

To get on to being the girlfriend, wife and mom that you truly desire!

In S2F you get 6 months of high touch support with:

🙋🏽‍♀️90 minute weekly group calls so you can stay focused, on track and in positive energy with the right guy for you and get any questions answered live! That is over 36 hours of live coaching.

🙋🏽‍♀️Facebook group support for when a dating situation comes up and you want to know the next step to take with him so you don’t blow it 🤦🏻‍♀️

🙋🏽‍♀️Video modules, audio modules, guides, workbooks, guided meditations and more…. over 20 resources you will have lifetime access to once you sign up! You can get started before the program even starts!

🙋🏽‍♀️Dating profile and photo review to guarantee your profile stands out so your perfect guy can see you!

🙋🏽‍♀️Dating App Alignment so you can find the perfect app for you based on your specific needs and personality.

🙋🏽‍♀️Finally, Find Your Guy Progress Chart so you can access your homework, track your wins and know your next step!

And check out these BONUSES:

🙋🏽‍♀️90 minute Dating Deep Dive ( value $397) ( for the first 5 Chicas who enroll ) where we will uncover your old patterns and emotional blocks, make a plan to evolve during this program to open your heart up to love again.

🙋🏽‍♀️Join me and the other chicas during 2 weekend LIVE events ( value $500) in Austin, Texas where we will be adding in yoga, guided meditation, specific dating and relationship exercises, yummy healthy food and creating real friendships/sisterhood with each other!

🙋🏽‍♀️ Swiping on Your Mr. Right Together ( value $300) : we will go through your matches and profiles together in a 45 minute call to guarantee you do not miss out on any good guys!

🙋🏽‍♀️Mini Trainings Bundle ( value $500)

  • From Mr Wrong to Mr. RIght

  • Staying in Your Feminine While Dating

  • 3 Tips to staying happy while dating

  • Finally Find Your Guy Online

 

It is time for you to be attracted to the guy that wants to be your man.

 
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Sarah met her guy online within four men that she was talking with. 

For 3 years she was frustrated with online dating (never-ending messaging, ghosting, blah dates); not finding men who were a suitable match; short-term relationships never progressing to long-term committed relationships.

When we started working together, we realized quickly that she was working blind in the online dating world.

Sarah was swiping away without intention or focus on what she was truly looking for.

After a few sessions together, Sarah became very clear on what she was looking for in a partner and she then learned specific skills to find it. Her online dating process became systematic, confident and FUN!

Before working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling Program, I  was in limbo and had been online dating for two years.

I was attracted to guys that were not ready for the kind of relationship that I was desired deep in my heart. Before working with Andi, I would find myself on a lot of first and second dates. Or I with guys that would ghost, linger off or say it was not working. Repeated dating situations like this hurt my feelings a lot and left me anxious and closed off.

After working with Andi, I was able to pick a guy that I would have normally passed over. I am so glad I didn’t. I created a great relationship during the S2F ❤️ program. I got to experience receiving from a man for the first time in a long time which is exactly what I  wanted. Andi’s encouragement and guidance to be more open that I thought I was was really what helped me a guy like him.


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But don’t take my word for it!

See what others who have used the Stalling to Falling in ❤️ System have to say!

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Estrella

Estrella had been doing online dating for more than 14 years and was attracting emotionally unavailable guys and her boyfriend was the FIRST man she met online after working with me.

And that wasn’t as easy as it sounds. Estrella’s old habits and patterns that kept her single for years kept popping up in even in this relationship. However, this time, Estrella had yours truly 🙋🏽‍♀️ to give her timely and an unfiltered perspective so she wouldn’t make the same love sabotaging mistakes that she did in her past.

They have been together for over a year meeting each others families and traveling and now talking about moving in together!

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Heather

Heather came to work with me after her divorce. Single and with 3 kids she did not know she was going to find love online. We quickly realized that Heather needed to RETRAIN herself about what a relationship actually needed to feel like for her to be happy and fulfilled. She is now married and IN LOVE for the first time feeling cared for on a DEEP SOUL LEVEL and having the time of her life exploring all parts of herself with her husband!

 
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Melinda

Melinda was online dating but just going through the motions, settling with whatever was out there and finding herself really discouraged and frustrated!

After a coaching together, she went in to dating even more clear with her vision, worked on how to state it confidently so he could hear it, and she practiced asking key questions she never asked before which was a huge game changer in how her relationship played out.

Fast forward a few months and now she is dating her DREAM GUY and feeling so hopeful after being divorced for 9 years.

He is the 3rd guy she met online on her third round of online dating after coaching with me. He asked her to be his girlfriend and he meets her where she is emotionally, spiritually and physically.

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Ronda

Before working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling in Love group program, I was struggling with creating an online profile that attracted available men that I connected with mentally and physically.

Her advice on creating a profile that is personable and attracting is spot on. She had me step outside my comfort zone in dating type.

She helped me learn to relax and enjoy the moment when dating. I stopped interviewing and I allowed myself to date men that weren't my "type". I created a great relationship while in the program.

Andi is a great coach and mentor. She is real and holds you accountable to be real with yourself. She shares her own personal experiences and gives advice that can be applied immediately. The coaching has helped me change my perspective on potential men, build my self confidence and identify boundaries and desires!

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Christy

It had been 19 years since my last first date and I was terrified of making wrong choices when it came to “looking for love” again.

My main concerns were that even though I had done “the work”- Getting rid of bad habits: not being myself, putting guys first and body image issues, the idea of online dating was completely overwhelming. So much so that I had put off signing up for anything for 6 months. I wanted help from someone that understood how the online dating scene worked and could help me look at dating again at 49 in a better light.

Andi has helped me restart my love life! She assisted in selecting the right dating site for me and making sure I had a great profile. One of the first things Andi said to me was “These photos do not capture exactly who you are” and helped me plan & choose better ones. The game changer for me was figuring out what I WANTED instead of being focused on what I didn’t want. Andi helped me focus on the positive which made the prospect of dating not so daunting.

I am a Mom and a business owner and used to doing everything myself. Having a professional like Andi has made all the difference. It was comforting to know that Andi’s support was there when I didn’t know what to do!

PS I am still dating the first guy I met! We are having so much fun and I adore him.

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Virginia

Before I started the Stalling to Falling in Love program, I had come out of bad relationships and struggled to put myself out there in dating.  I was having a hard time being vulnerable and understanding how to read profiles to find what I was really looking for.

I would go on one date and then quit for two months when it didn't go well. Or I would get too invested in one person when he seemed like a perfect match in my mind.

I didn't know how to read profiles to find what I was looking for, I was too nervous to ask dates important questions, and ended up disappointed all the time. 

If you are truly ready for a relationship but struggle with dating, I can't recommend Andi's program enough. 

During the program, I learned how to manage my own feelings and expectations better, so I didn't want to give up every time I had a bad dating experience.

I described it to my friends as "dating therapy" - it is perfect for someone like me who has fears around relationships and needs help reframing old patterns. 

The group dynamic is so supportive, and Andi really knows how to foster a sense of community. Within 2 months, I met a wonderful guy who is open, honest, and ready for a relationship, and I feel confident saying I was able to accept that in my life because of the support I received from Andi and the group.

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Carla

Carla never forgot my words when she told me about the guy she was dating before Mr. Berlin., “Get clear on what you are looking for in a guy. What do you want??? If you aren’t clear than you are being unavailable and you are attracting unavailable guys in your life who are unavailable”. Boom. Not what she wanted to hear but after that she knew she had to change something ( including the guy she was dating that made her feel like crap every time she saw him) . 2 months later, she met a guy on her first night in her new city and he is amazing and they are seeing each other a lot! 3 dates in one week which is very new and exciting for her!

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Alexis

Alexis created the best long term relationship in YEARS! Alexis was getting burned out trying to play the numbers game of going out with a ton of guys regardless of her level of interest/attraction to them, just in case they ended up being the one.

After working together in a session or two, she felt a lot more clear about what she specifically wanted in the dating process and then became more confident and then even more trusting of herself that she could make good decisions in regards to men

She began to see dating as an personal development opportunity instead of something uncomfortable to dread or “ have to do” to find love.

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Lee

It doesn’t have to take years, Lee’s guy was the third guy she met online.

Lee had a goal to find a boyfriend before her birthday which was 6 months away.  She met this guy within 2 months of working with me, but Lee didn't know he was the one at the time.

If left to her own devices, Lee would have thrown him away many many many times, because she couldn't see past her blindspots.  

One change that we worked on during her sessions was to her tendency to over analyze and think about everything little thing that happened and to look for the worst possible scenario. 

The other piece that was huge for her to shift was practicing how to communicate from the heart instead of being defensive.

And it is working!

 They just came back from their SECOND vacation together! Yay for LOVE!

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Denise

Before working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling in Love program, I was wasting my precious free time looking through boring profiles, messaging guys that never asked me out and going on dates that were never going to go further than date 1 or 2. 

If I did find someone I was attracted to, I would rush into a relationship without doing my homework and it would end within a few months. Working with Andi on a weekly basis helped me to slow down and make sure I was picking guys based on common values. 

Her S2F the process of online dating made finding love super-efficient for me as a single mom of 3 kids and a busy professional, I needed dating to be frustration-free. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy that is super calm, very ambitious and a great partner.

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Dana

Dana was single for 6 years and online dating like it was her job for the past 2 years.  After working together in a 1 hour VIP session, Dana realized that she was really selling herself short and settling for crumbs. Together we worked on what to focus on and what she deserved in a relationship and BOOM! She met an amazing guy that she MIGHT have swiped left on  and yet he is everything she has wanted and more and makes her feel so loved and cared for! 

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Joyce

Before working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling in ❤️ Starter Series, I was struggling with how to online date after my divorce since I had not dated in decades.  

I wanted to learn to date with intention so I could find guys that matched up with me as well as avoid falling back into my old patterns of hiding myself with men. I wanted to go have fun instead of sitting home alone. 

After working with Andi, I was much more clear than I originally was ( she pulls it out of you when you are hemming and hawing around ) on what I am looking for in a man to spend time with and what I was available for in a relationship. I am now dating a few guys and getting to know them ( and myself as well ) and having a fun time.

Andi even taught me what to do when a guy was not acting interested in me how to handle it in a direct and fun way so that I could make conscious choices and not a bunch of assumptions and have more choices! 

Andi sees the big picture and long term results I was looking and ready for. She also unpacks the hidden gems I could not see that kept me blocked as well as challenged me when ready from a loving place.

I would say in many respects she is very clear herself and able to hold space for me while I waffled around sometimes and needed a nudge.

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Mary Lynn

Before coaching with Andi I was fearful of making the wrong decision. I was so fearful that I have not been in a relationship in 3 years. She helped me to be positive and to accept men in my life. I am attracting good men and trusting myself when they are anything less or I'm just not interested. I pay attention to how I feel now.

I was able to practice trust with Andi and be so completely honest and open that  even my biggest fears could come out and be dealt with.

Andi rocks. She's so sweet and trustworthy and yet so wise and clear. She will tell you what you need and not what you want to hear so be ready to do real work.

Andi is like a light into your mind and the shadows that have hidden your best life. Her light is the love of her heart and she will lead you back to your own light.

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Heidi

“What I love about coaching with Andi is that it is more expansive than therapy. She challenges me to create the life I have dreamed about with better connections with friends and family, and also making space to pursue my passions. It was all inside of me, she just showed me how to remove what was stopping me."

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Terry

Before attending 3 Secrets to Swiping on Mr. Right, I was not as open as I thought I was. I decided to give a guy that I would have normally not a chance because I didn't think he was my type. We ended up talking for 4 hours on our first date and talking every day. On the second date, he had flowers and had my favorite group playing on the radio when I got in the car . We are still seeing each other. We have so much in common. He is funny which I have never really dated a guy like him. He is so sweet. And I am really glad I met him! Because of your webinars and group phone call. I really, really learned how to read profiles to find a great guy!

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Liliana

I made the decision to reconnect with my last guy who triggered me to the core, knowing Andi would be there to talk to and help me decipher the reactions to the triggers. I uncovered a BIG shadow/conditioning from my childhood and understood how it impacted all my relationships. Understanding that my pattern was intermittent intensity was HUGE and now I am having messages from better quality matches.

You should absolutely reach out to Andi.  Andi is knowledgeable, flexible, generous and good at identifying your shadows, your stories and your fears (which are related to stories). I took risks because I knew Andi was there to support me.

When we do not see the results we (think) we want, we need to look inward. However, this is hardest than it sounds, and the only way is to do it with the help who can really see, someone you trust who can guide you. Andi is that kind of coach for me.

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Before working with Andi, I was ready to throw in the towel on love.

I did not believe that quality men existed in the dating world. I felt I would get hurt again. 

After working with Andi in the Stalling to Falling in Love Group, I felt a shift in that belief and felt hope again for the first time I could find a quality guy.

Andi taught us best practices in getting clear on the relationship-ready guys and avoiding the unavailable guys, which made online dating easier.

I learned how to date the correct way instead of just looking.

Andi’s coaching also taught me how to open my heart and how to believe kind guys still exist in the world.

During the program,  I met and went on dates with some wonderful men I may not have even given a chance before. Regardless if I end up or do not end up in love with either of these men, I know for sure; I know quality men still exist today and know how to date to find them! 

FAQs :

When does the program start and end? The orientation period starts September 24 and the last week for calls is April 29, 2020.

When are the group calls and how long are they? Weekly calls will be 7 ET/5 PST Tuesdays/Wednesdays and/or Thursdays for 90 minutes

What level of support will I get from Andi? Andi will be on each weekly call answering questions and helping clarify next steps. She will also be in the FB group once a day to answer any popcorn questions 5 times a week.

Are there any other junior coaches? Andi is the only coach. However by being part of the Facebook community others are encouraged to comment on others posts in a helpful and positive manner.

Is there any 1 on 1 included ? YES! Each chica gets a Swiping With Mr. Right together session and the first 5 chicas get a 90 minute deep dive clarity/block removing intensive. There are 2 Live sessions in Austin where you will get 1 on 1 time and there is an opportunity to upgrade your package with 6 private one on sessions to compliment the group program.

What happens when I get a boyfriend during the program? You can choose to stay in the S2F ❤️ group or you may move to the follow up group Don’t Mess It Up, Chica 🤦🏻‍♀️for the chicas with boyfriends. Think of it as continuing ed because being in a relationship can bring up a lot of emotional stuff and having continued support at the beginning sets up the new relationship for success!

Do I have to show up for the whole call? NOPE. You can show up and let Andi know if you have some time constraints and she will do her best to get you in and out. The call will be uploaded for you to rewatch at a later time.

What are the video modules and resources I get to keep forever and ever? Video/audio modules/Guides/Workbooks all highlight different aspects of the S2F❤️ System, psychology and philosophy including mindset, vision, marketing, communication, best practices etc.

How many people are in the group? S2F❤️2 will be small group less than 20 chicas.

Will my privacy be maintained? OH YES! This is huge for Andi and is in the contract for all to sign. The Facebook group is Secret which means no one can find it or access it. If you are really wanting even more privacy, feel free to create a fake FB account.

What results can I expect? What if I don’t meet a great guy? I do not guarantee that you will meet someone within 6 months although 80 percent of my clients do. Results vary based on your openness to doing things differently, willing to let go of past, your openness to direct feedback, following S2F guidelines, showing up for the calls, asking for support, doing the work, making time to date etc. I do guarantee you will leave more confident with insane clarity and alot of tools that you did not have before you joined.

Is this for only heterosexual women? Not at all. The S2F ❤️ process works for everyone. I only market to heterosexual women as that has been the bulk of my clients as of yet.

What if I don’t meet a great guy? Is there a money back guarantee? Some people just need a little longer. So I do not as I do not guarantee that you will meet someone within 6 months although 80 percent of my clients do. Results vary based on your openness to doing things differently, willing to move on from past, your openness to direct feedback, following S2F guidelines, showing up for the calls, asking for support, doing the work, making time to date etc. I do offer an insane Alumni offer at a very special price for the next round so I can continue to support you.

 Helping others find love isn’t just my passion, it’s my

Superpower

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I know you don’t often talk about your dating life because it can be embarrassing but in our community all the walls come down. In our community, women can finally talk about online dating openly so you can finally get the support you need to finally, find your guy online!

Don’t skip over the great guy….

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Feel less cray cray and more confident…..

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Meet available guys you are attracted to….

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Benefits of a group program…

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So, what are you waiting for?

Quit wasting your time playing the numbers game and get on the path towards discovering your soulmate!

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